Nonsense! studies show that more heterosexual (men and women) couples engage in anal play than gay men. The fact is that many women like having their bottoms played with – there are all sorts of nerve endings round the opening, which can provide quite a lot of pleasure. In straight relationships, a man’s butt doesn’t have the same level of sexual achievement as the female equivalent. There are still a lot of guys out there (full disclosure: myself included) who don’t want anything near their butts. I agree that no one should be forced to do anything sexually that they don’t like.
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I feel you’re hanging on to it because you can’t imagine life without your husband after all this time. Other times, couples use anal sex as a way of being sexual. Today more than 20 percent of women ages 20 to 39 and men ages 25 to 49 report having had anal sex in the last year.